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Author: Will Graebe

Recharging: One Size Does Not Fit All

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When people talk about recharging, they often assume there is a one-size-fits-all solution. The advice often sounds familiar. Take a vacation, spend time with friends, go to a party, travel somewhere exciting, or get out and be more social.

For some lawyers, those suggestions sound wonderful. For others, they sound exhausting.

One of the challenges of talking about this issue is that people recharge in different ways. What restores one person may drain another. Introverts and extroverts offer a good example.

Extroverts often gain energy from being around other people. After a hard week at work, they may feel refreshed by attending a social event, meeting friends for dinner, or spending time in a group setting. Human interaction energizes them.

Introverts, on the other hand, often recharge differently. After spending a day in client meetings, court appearances, and negotiations, they may need quiet time alone. Reading a book, taking a walk, working in the garden, fishing, listening to music, or simply sitting on the back porch may be exactly what they need to restore their energy.

Neither approach is right or wrong. They are simply different. The important lesson is that recharging is not about following someone else’s formula. It is about discovering what genuinely restores your energy and making time for those activities. The truth is that only you know what recharges you.

If you are not sure what that looks like, experiment. Try different activities and pay attention to how you feel afterward. Do you feel energized, refreshed, calmer, more focused, or more optimistic? Or do you feel just as drained as before? Your body and mind will often tell you what is working if you are willing to listen. The goal is not to find the perfect activity. The goal is to find activities that help refill your tank.

The possibilities are almost endless. For some people, recharging may involve exercise, meditation, yoga, or simply getting a good night’s sleep. Others may find renewal through travel, attending a social event, spending time with family or friends, or participating in a faith community. Some people recharge by spending time in nature, taking a hike, fishing, gardening, or sitting quietly on a porch with a cup of coffee. Others find restoration in creative pursuits such as painting, woodworking, photography, writing, cooking, or playing music. Reading a good book, listening to your favorite songs, volunteering, watching a ballgame, or working on a hobby can be equally effective. What matters is not the activity itself. What matters is whether it leaves you feeling more energized and restored than when you started.

While the ways people recharge may differ, the need to recharge is universal. Every one of us needs time to rest, recover, and replenish our energy. If we ignore that need for too long, the consequences eventually show up in the form of fatigue, irritability, stress, burnout, and sometimes more serious physical and mental health problems.

Unfortunately, lawyers are not always good at recharging. For many lawyers, recharging is viewed as a luxury rather than a necessity. We admire the lawyer who is always working, always available, and always pushing harder. Long hours become a badge of honor. Taking a break can feel unproductive or maybe even weak. Rest is often postponed until after the next trial, the next closing, or the next deadline. The problem, of course, is that there is always another deadline. When lawyers continually defer rest and renewal, they eventually begin to run on empty.

The irony is that many lawyers view recharging as time away from productivity when, in reality, it is what makes sustained productivity possible. Rest is not the opposite of work. Rest is what allows us to continue doing meaningful work at a high level.

So, if you have been running on empty, give yourself permission to recharge. Find the activities that work for you and make time for them without guilt. Your mind, body, family, clients, and colleagues will all benefit. Recharging is not a luxury. It is maintenance. And just like any other form of maintenance, it is far less costly than waiting until something breaks.

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