Will Graebe came to Lawyers Mutual in 1998 as claims counsel. In 2009, Will became the Vice President of the Claims Department and served in that role until 2019. After a two-year sabbatical, Will returned to Lawyers Mutual as claims counsel and relationship manager. In his role as claims counsel, Will focuses primarily on claims related to estates and trusts, business transactions and real estate matters. Will received his J.D. from Wake Forest University School of Law and his undergraduate degree from Stetson University. Prior to joining Lawyers Mutual, will worked in private practice with the law firm of Pinna, Johnston & Burwell.  

Don’t Interrupt Me

In the fast-paced world of legal practice, interruptions are a constant companion. Whether it's a ringing phone, a pop-up email, or a colleague dropping by your office, these disruptions can significantly impact your productivity, mental health, and overall job satisfaction. While it may seem like a minor inc… Read More

Chewing on Thermometers

I was an abnormally curious child. I don’t mean the kind of curiosity that suggests intelligence. I mean the type that leads to mischief and trouble. You know, like how hard can I bite down on this glass thermometer before it shatters in my mouth. It turns out that it’s not that hard. And, no, mercury is not absorbed into the bloodstream when you swallow it. This was just one of many misadventures that resulted from my “need to know” things.   Read More

Man’s Best Friend

Growing up, my stories are filled with vibrant characters, but few left as lasting an impression as Barney, our family dog. Barney was legendary. During the day, he roamed the streets, creating his own adventures. Yes, he was hit by cars more than once, but each time, he bounced back with unwavering determinati… Read More

No Good Deed Goes Unpunished: The Ethics of Gifts to Litigation Clients

I recently spoke to a lawyer who was representing a client in a litigation matter. The client had fallen on hard times and was having trouble paying basic living expenses. The lawyer had a genuine humanitarian concern for the welfare of this client and had given the client some money to help with gas, food, and… Read More

From the Wild West to the Courtroom: Guarding Truth in the Age of Misinformation

One of the first cases I handled as a young lawyer was a small claims court breach of contract case in Indiana. I represented a business that sold a fax machine to a lawyer who failed to make payment for the equipment. We sued the lawyer for a whopping $1,243. Before the case was concluded, I left the Indiana law firm to move back to North Carolina. A year or so later, I was contacted by a lawyer representing my former client. He advised that the defendant lawyer had submitted into evidence a letter that appeared to be fabricated. The letter was dated December 7, 1991, and recited that he had spoken with me and that I told him to settle directly with the client for $86.   Read More

Saying No

I read recently that Brene Brown, when asked to commit to a future activity, turns her ring in a circle three times to pause and ground herself before answering. This caught my attention. How as lawyers do we know when to say “no?” In our demanding worlds, the ability to say "no" is just as essentia… Read More

The Duty of Technological Competence

Rule 1.1 of the North Carolina Rules of Professional Conduct requires a lawyer to have the “legal knowledge, skill, thoroughness, and preparation” necessary to represent a client in a particular matter. Comment 8 to Rule 1.1 clarifies that this includes an ethical duty of competence in technology. I… Read More

The Client with Questionable Capacity

I frequently get calls from lawyers who have been asked to draft testamentary documents for elderly clients who are struggling with serious and sometimes terminal physical health issues and/or questionable cognitive abilities or dementia. Many times, the lawyer has been contacted by a child, spouse, or other fa… Read More

Defending a Client with a Victim Mentality

Defending any client in a courtroom is a complex and multifaceted endeavor. When it comes to representing clients with a pronounced victim mentality, the challenges intensify. The intersection of psychology, jury perception, and legal strategy forms a unique landscape that defense lawyers must navigate meticulo… Read More

Ageism in Focus: Hollywood, Politics, and the Future of the Workforce

The 2024 U.S. presidential election has brought renewed attention to the role of age in leadership and employment. With a 60-year-old and a 78-year-old competing for the nation’s highest office, both candidates defied stereotypes about older individuals lacking the stamina, relevance, or capability to per… Read More

Mountains of Grief

On December 7, 1970, my mom woke my brother and me up to tell us that our dad had been hit by a car and killed the night before. They had been out to dinner, and, when my dad stepped out of the car and into the street, a drunk driver hit him. I was 7 years old when this happened.   Read More

Hope Wins During Prolonged Periods of Stress

Mindfulness practices have been touted as a therapeutic tool to address stress, anxiety, depression, PTSD, chronic pain, and a whole host of other mental health issues. Numerous studies support many of these claims. But is it the best coping mechanism for people who are suffering from prolonged periods of stres… Read More

Nonlinear Aging

According to a recent study published in Nature Aging, aging is not a gradual process but occurs in distinct phases. Researchers from Nanyang Technological University and Stanford University analyzed data from a longitudinal cohort of 108 participants and found that age-related changes in metabolism happen at s… Read More

Practicing Law From 5,000 Miles Away: An Interview with Attorney Jeff Austin

A recent American Bar Association report noted that nearly two-thirds of private practice lawyers are allowed to work remotely 100% of the time or have the option of choosing their own schedule... One lawyer who capitalized on this new opportunity is Jeff Austin. Jeff turned his remote work opportunity into an adventure by living and working remotely in Patagonia for a year.   Read More